Confidence

1. People who think they are attractive are more resistant to love and likely to be more selective.
2. People with low self-esteem or low confidence are more susceptible to love.

1. Pursue people with low self-esteem or confidence.
2. Verbally abuse lover, always telling he/she is ugly, fat, and unwanted. He/she will never find another person to love him/her besides you.

1. Be successful at your career and other life goals.
2. If in school, get good grades, be a cheerleader or a jock, or run for student body office. Be popular.
3. Take care of yourself and always improve physically, intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually.
4. Brainwash yourself by looking in the mirror everyday and telling yourself that you are an attractive person.

Rules of Attraction Related Information

• Qualities to Fulfill the Needs of Others - physical Attractiveness, similarities, social skills, emotional intelligence, entertainment, and wealth.
• Confidence to Fulfill Needs of Others - why appearing confident is so important.
• Lowering the Love Costs of Others - proximity, meeting frequency, and reciprocal liking.
• Situational Forces - mood and arousal.