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Dating Advice to Decrease Research Cost
- Date as many people as possible before getting serious.
Dating a few people may be disadvantageous, especially for soulmate believers. People think that having a few long-term relationships is such a good thing. It may not be. Unless you end up marrying them, you have wasted your time and lost opportunities to date other people. If your research skills are good, you do not need years to figure out whether a person is your soulmate. It is better to have many short-term relationships and figure out what your needs are and which candidates have the qualities to fulfill those needs. Dating many people will sharpen your research skills and help you avoid being stuck in bad or dead end relationships and ruining your chances of finding your soulmate. As each year pass, your pool of eligible candidates becomes smaller.
- To reduce the research cost of others, be honest and do not pretend to be someone you are not.
Being rejected is good. If your love interest does not like the real you, they are not your soulmate. Your maintenance cost will be higher when you pretend to something you are not. You will soon discover that maintenance cost is too high or your love interest discovers the real you. When this happens, you will be rejected. Better to be rejected initially than to waste your time, energy, money, and opportunities trying to win someone over by not being yourself.
- Get out of a relationship as soon as you know there is no future.
Cut your losses as soon a possible. The more time, money, emotion, and energy invested into a relationship, the harder it is to leave. Being in a wrong relationship will ruin your chances of finding your soulmate. Knowing when and how to end a relationship will help you avoid being stuck in bad or dead end relationships and ruining your chances of finding your soulmate. As each year passes, your pool of eligible candidates becomes smaller.
- Hire a private investigator to research love interest.
- Go to a spy shop. Buy and plant bugs in love interest's home and car.
- Research and cross-examine love interest's family and friends as well.
- Keep a research file. Buy small tape recorder, tape every conversation, take notes, and watch out for discrepancies.
The main reason for dating is to gather information to see if someone is your soulmate. The more amount and independent the information you can gather about your love interest, the faster you can make the diagnosis. Some people who see that you are able to fulfill their needs may pretend to be someone they are not to attract you. These people make your job of researching harder so you have to have really good research skills. Otherwise, these people will be wasting your time, money, energy, and opportunities to find your soulmate.
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