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Dating Advice About Social Networking Skills

Dating Advice to Decrease Social Networking Skills of Love Interest

increases: search cost of lover
decreases: social network size of lover, your break up risk, your break up cost

Tell love interest that being shy is a good thing.
Shyness is usually not a good thing. Being shy is considered by most a social disorder and prevents people to living life to the fullest. Agoraphobia, a severe form of shyness, is a rare of phobia that causes certain people to panic when exposed to large groups. It is considered a mental condition and drugs are used to treat it. Some people are attracted to shy people because shy people are less threatening than popular people. Shy people have smaller social networks. Therefore, the odds of them finding a better person than you is small. The risk of you being dumped decreases.
Prevent love interest from joining an online dating service. Comment that you pity people using online dating services; that those people are so scary and desperate. Clip out news articles about people who have been killed, raped, or molested using online dating service or chat rooms and report them to love interest.
Online dating services are currently the best way to access a large number of people, increasing the odds of finding someone who may be compatible with you. You may look desperate to your friends and family, but people who socially intelligent will view you as smart for expanding your social network and increasing your odds of finding your soulmate. People who do not use online dating services are either not too picky or victims of social influences, They are limiting the size of their social networks.
Convince love interest that his/her new friends are creeps and are bad for him/her.
When someone tries to limit your social support network, they are not looking out for your interest. They want to make you co-dependant and trap you in a relationship. By limiting your social support network or social network, they decrease their odds of being dumped by you. So they can treat you like shit and get away with it because they know you will always be back for more abuse.

Dating Advice to Increase Your Social Networking Skills

increases: your social network size, break up risk of lover
decreases: your search cost, your break up risk, your break up cost

Join Toastmasters to conquer your fear of public speaking.
Public speaking is one of biggest fears of humans. By conquering this fear, your confidence increases because you will see other minor fears as manageable. Approaching strangers to initiate a conversation is risky. They may not want to talk to you. They may not like you. They might reject you. These outcomes will affect you less if you already overcame the fear of public speaking.
Conquer your shyness. Become a schmoozer by learning how to make and keep friends.
Having many friends makes you powerful. You will always a friend to hang out with, rescue you from stressful situation, hook you up with other people, etc… The bigger you social network, the greater your chance that one of your friends may know and introduce you to your soulmate.
Join an online dating service.
Until we launch our dating service, online dating services are the most cost-effective way to meet many possible soulmate candidates.
Go on many dates as possible and always keep them as friends.
Why does every date have to end badly? So one of you or both of you realize you both are not compatible. Add them to you network of friends and help them find their soulmate by introducing them to your friends. Ask your failed date to do the same. Your incompatible date may know your soulmate but because you ended a date badly, you lost that lead. When you go on a date, you are not dating one person but that person plus their whole social network.

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