Love Advice About Sexual Needs

1. If sex is great, people tend to stay in dysfunctional relationship longer and breaking up is harder.
   The sexual benefit you are receiving from your lover may make up for the emotional, financial, opportunity, and break-up costs of being in a bad relationship.
   
   
2. Commitment like marriage will take longer if you are getting sex for free or at little cost.
   Marriage increases break-up cost. Why would you want to increase your break-up cost when you are already receiving all the benefits of relationship? This is the "Why buy the cow when the milk is free" argument.
   
   
3. People who are sexually active will devote a lot of time, money, and energy to remain that way.
   For most people, having sex is a very pleasurable experience and a very powerful psychological positive reinforcement. Like heroine addicts, some people will do anything for sex.
   
   
4. Impotency or infertility causes stress in a relationship.
   Being impotent prevents you from fulfilling your lover's sexual needs. Having a family provides for you esteems needs. If your spouse is infertile, it will cause you additional emotional cost. Infertility treatments are every expensive, increasing your financial cost. If those treatments fail, the adoption process is usually very stressful and expensive.
   
   

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• The Core Variables of Love
  • Love Advice About Emotional Availability
  • Love Advice About Past Relationship Experiences
  • Love Advice About Commitment
• The Benefits of Love
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    • Love Advice About Social Needs
    • Love Advice About Spiritual Needs
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    • Love Advice About Primary Needs
    • Love Advice About Sexual Needs
    • Love Advice About Materialistic Desires
• The Costs of Love
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    • Love Advice About Emotional Cost
    • Love Advice About Time Cost
    • Love Advice About Financial Cost
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