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Past Love Experiences |
Past experiences with love will influence how people view love. Those who grew up being loved will want to be loved. However, people who were in abusive relationships may associate the abuse with love, hindering them to love. Also, people who have had their hearts severely broken will less likely fall in love again.
Insights and Predictions
- People who have experienced love will be lonelier than those who have not.
- People who have been in love will devote more energy to be in love again.
- People from good families would value marriage more than people from dysfunctional ones.
- People in past abusive relationships may have problems falling in love.
- Pursuing people who have little or no baggage is easier than pursuing those who have some.
- Pursuing people who are always in a relationship is easier than pursuing loners.
Tactics to Influence Past Relationship Experiences
- If lover interest's or lover's future net benefit is great or you can not do any better, recommend him/her to get professional help to resolve his/her "issues".
- Avoid falling in love with the wrong people by influencing the variables of the Model.
- If you came from a dysfunctional family or bad relationships, resolve your "issues" by yourself or with professional help before falling in love again.
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The Theory of Love Economics
- Love Economics - a new love theory to promote intelligent dating by explaining love using simple math equations.
- The Benefits of Love-understand why everybody wants to be loved.
- The Costs of Love-understand why love causes so much problems and pain.
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