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Relationship Advice bout Opportunity Cost |
Relationship Advice to Lower Your Opportunity Cost
- Never commit until you find true love. You are always single and available.
Never committing to a relationship frees you and forces you to hunt for you soulmate. Announcing to everyone that you are single and available gives your friends and family a green light to introduce you to soulmate candidates. Only commit when you are fairly sure that you have found your soulmate. Otherwise, you will be increasing your opportunity cost.
- Never say you have a boyfriend or girlfriend when you are still researching.
Being single sometimes carry a stigma. Being single may be a sign that nobody wants you or you lack attractive traits to get a lover. This is especially true in high school or college where being dateless will bring a lot of shame or pity. To avoid this shame, people commit to a relationship before the research stage is completed, trapping themselves in a relationship and ruining their chance of finding their soulmate. You will become very unattractive to other singles if you tell everyone you have a boyfriend or girlfriend. When you break up, unless you announce publicly you have broken up, people will still assume you are still in a relationship. To most, you may look like a loser for always being single but to the socially smart, you are brilliant.
- Stagger your life by first focusing on career then finding your soulmate.
If you are talented, having a satisfying career is a must. Unlike others, you are not satisfied with just a job to pay the bills. The cost for this dream career is usually your social and love life. By fighting a two front war, to further your career and to find your soulmate, other people who have found their soulmates or don't care about love will beat you for the next promotion. For some people, it is best for them to focus of a career and then focus on finding a soulmate or vice versa. Don't settle for either career or love. Have it all.
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