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Introduction

1.  The Manifesto's Purpose

     The Need

     The Method

     How to Use the Manifesto

     The Outcome

2.  Love Economics

     Behavioral Models

     The Core Variables

     A Relationship

     Model Assumptions

     Emotional Availability

     Past Love Experiences

     Commitment

     How to Use the Model

3.  The Benefits of Love

     Emotional Needs

     Entertainment Needs

     Materialistic Needs

4.  The Costs of Love

     Search Cost

     Your Attractiveness

     Your Social Networking Skills

     Search Time Cost

     Search Financial Cost

     Rejection Cost

     Research Cost

     Maintenance Cost

     Opportunity Cost

     Breakup Risk

     Risk of Being Dumped

     Breakup Cost

5.  Attraction

     Attractiveness

     Qualities to Fulfill Needs of Others

     Confidence

     Lowering Love Costs of Others

     Situational Forces

     Other Attractive Traits

6.  Weaknesses of the Model

7.  Soulmates & True Love

     Soulmate Theory

     Number of Soulmate Believers

     The Evidence of Soulmates

     Chances of Marrying Your Soulmate

8.  Methods of Finding Soulmates

     On Your Own

     Virtual Communities

     Personal Ads

     Traditional Dating Services

     Online Dating Services

9.  How to Solve Dating

     The Solution

     How You Can Help Solve Dating

10.  Appendix

     Other Attractive Traits

     Love Economics Translations

References

About the Author




The Soulmate Manifesto:

Uniting all Soulmate Believers

In an Effort to Solve Dating



Copyright 2003. Aluran, Inc.




The Soulmate Manifesto:
Uniting All Soulmate Believers in an Effort to Solve Dating

The Core Variables

The Model assumes people fall in love because the total benefit of being in love outweighs the total cost of being in love. So the probability of falling in love is related to your perception of the probability of net benefit resulting from being in love. Mathematically, the Model is written as:

Probability of Love = Probability of ( Net Benefit of Being in Love, Emotional Availability, Past Love Experiences )
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Net Benefit = Total Benefit - Total Cost
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Total Benefit = friendship + fulfillment of sexual needs
friendship = fulfillment of ( emotional needs + entertainment needs + materialistic needs - sexual needs)
Total Benefit = fulfillment of (emotional needs + entertainment needs + materialistic needs)
emotional needs = esteem needs + social needs + spiritual needs + safety needs
materialistic needs = primary needs + sexual needs + materialistic desires
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Total Cost = cost of (search + rejection + research + maintenance + opportunity) + breakup risk
search cost = your attractiveness + social networking skills + time cost + financial cost
rejection cost = -(your self-esteem + frequency of past rejections)
research cost = knowledge of self + diagnostic abilities + proximity
maintenance cost = emotional cost +
time cost to fulfill emotional, entertainment, materialistic needs +
financial cost to fulfill emotional, entertainment, materialistic needs
breakup risk = risk of being dumped + your breakup cost
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Commitment = future net benefit - future net benefit from another love + current breakup cost


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