Home Introduction 1.  The Manifesto's Purpose      The Need      The Method      How to Use the Manifesto      The Outcome 2.  Love Economics      Behavioral Models      The Core Variables      A Relationship      Model Assumptions      Emotional Availability      Past Love Experiences      Commitment      How to Use the Model 3.  The Benefits of Love      Emotional Needs      Entertainment Needs      Materialistic Needs 4.  The Costs of Love      Search Cost      Your Attractiveness      Your Social Networking Skills      Search Time Cost      Search Financial Cost      Rejection Cost      Research Cost      Maintenance Cost      Opportunity Cost      Breakup Risk      Risk of Being Dumped      Breakup Cost 5.  Attraction      Attractiveness      Qualities to Fulfill Needs of Others      Confidence      Lowering Love Costs of Others      Situational Forces      Other Attractive Traits 6.  Weaknesses of the Model 7.  Soulmates & True Love      Soulmate Theory      Number of Soulmate Believers      The Evidence of Soulmates      Chances of Marrying Your Soulmate 8.  Methods of Finding Soulmates      On Your Own      Virtual Communities      Personal Ads      Traditional Dating Services      Online Dating Services 9.  How to Solve Dating      The Solution      How You Can Help Solve Dating 10.  Appendix      Other Attractive Traits      Love Economics Translations References About the Author The Soulmate Manifesto: Uniting all Soulmate Believers In an Effort to Solve Dating Copyright 2003. Aluran, Inc.

The Soulmate Manifesto: Uniting All Soulmate Believers in an Effort to Solve Dating Emotional Availability Besides the net benefit of love, emotional availability is an important variable of falling in love. Are you or your love interest available for love? People who are already in love are usually immune to falling in love with another person. They may be in love with the person in their current relationship, someone unobtainable, a career, God, an addiction, themselves, or a fantasy ideal soulmate. Insights and Predictions If love interest is already in love, breaking up his/her existing relationship is difficult. People who always need to be in a relationship will less likely find their soulmates. Dreamers are more resistant to falling in love than realists. To singles, unattached people, all things equal, are more attractive than attached people. Crack or heroin addicts will have a harder time falling and being in love. Tactics to Increase Love Interest's Emotional Availability Undermine your love interest's existing relationship by using deceit and deception. Use the Model to manipulate the variables in your favor. Tactics to Increase Your Emotional Availability Never commit to a relationship. You are always single and available. Be a player. Be selective with relationships. It is sad to belong to someone else when the right one comes along. If you have a close friend of the opposite sex (assuming you are heterosexual), always publicize that you are "just friends". Keep your distance from each other at social events. End any relationship that has no future as quickly as possible. Learn to be alone. If you are one of the lucky few that are in love with their careers, keep it a secret referring to your passion as "just a job" to avoid being labeled a "workaholic". If you are stuck in an unwanted relationship, refer to your lover as "a friend" when he/she is not with you. < Back Top Next > SPREAD THIS INFORMATION   If you want to help solve dating, please spread the word by clicking below: Be a supporter by joining our mailing list. Send friends a link to this web site so they can download it. Download, print, copy, and give it to friends and family. Download, print, copy, and post the flyer to support the campaign. Sponsored Links: Alexis Vogel Cosmetics: Professional Makeup and Makeup Tips - The Alexis Vogel System from sought after Hollywood makeup artist, Alexis Vogel. Step-by-step video instruction, professional quality cosmetics, makeup artist tools, and value pricing.