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Introduction

1.  The Manifesto's Purpose

     The Need

     The Method

     How to Use the Manifesto

     The Outcome

2.  Love Economics

     Behavioral Models

     The Core Variables

     A Relationship

     Model Assumptions

     Emotional Availability

     Past Love Experiences

     Commitment

     How to Use the Model

3.  The Benefits of Love

     Emotional Needs

     Entertainment Needs

     Materialistic Needs

4.  The Costs of Love

     Search Cost

     Your Attractiveness

     Your Social Networking Skills

     Search Time Cost

     Search Financial Cost

     Rejection Cost

     Research Cost

     Maintenance Cost

     Opportunity Cost

     Breakup Risk

     Risk of Being Dumped

     Breakup Cost

5.  Attraction

     Attractiveness

     Qualities to Fulfill Needs of Others

     Confidence

     Lowering Love Costs of Others

     Situational Forces

     Other Attractive Traits

6.  Weaknesses of the Model

7.  Soulmates & True Love

     Soulmate Theory

     Number of Soulmate Believers

     The Evidence of Soulmates

     Chances of Marrying Your Soulmate

8.  Methods of Finding Soulmates

     On Your Own

     Virtual Communities

     Personal Ads

     Traditional Dating Services

     Online Dating Services

9.  How to Solve Dating

     The Solution

     How You Can Help Solve Dating

10.  Appendix

     Other Attractive Traits

     Love Economics Translations

References

About the Author




The Soulmate Manifesto:

Uniting all Soulmate Believers

In an Effort to Solve Dating



Copyright 2003. Aluran, Inc.




The Soulmate Manifesto:
Uniting All Soulmate Believers in an Effort to Solve Dating

Past Love Experiences

Past experiences with love will influence how people view love. Those who grew up being loved will want to be loved. However, people who were in abusive relationships may associate the abuse with love, hindering them to love. Also, people who have had their hearts severely broken will less likely fall in love again.


Insights and Predictions
  1. People who have experienced love will be lonelier than those who have not.
  2. People who have been in love will devote more energy to be in love again.
  3. People from good families would value marriage more than people from dysfunctional ones.
  4. People in past abusive relationships may have problems falling in love.
  5. Pursuing people who have little or no baggage is easier than pursuing those who have some.
  6. Pursuing people who are always in a relationship is easier than pursuing loners.

Tactics to Influence Past Relationship Experiences
  1. If lover interest's or lover's future net benefit is great or you can not do any better, recommend him/her to get professional help to resolve his/her "issues".
  2. Avoid falling in love with the wrong people by influencing the variables of the Model.
  3. If you came from a dysfunctional family or bad relationships, resolve your "issues" by yourself or with professional help before falling in love again.


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