Home Introduction 1.  The Manifesto's Purpose      The Need      The Method      How to Use the Manifesto      The Outcome 2.  Love Economics      Behavioral Models      The Core Variables      A Relationship      Model Assumptions      Emotional Availability      Past Love Experiences      Commitment      How to Use the Model 3.  The Benefits of Love      Emotional Needs      Entertainment Needs      Materialistic Needs 4.  The Costs of Love      Search Cost      Your Attractiveness      Your Social Networking Skills      Search Time Cost      Search Financial Cost      Rejection Cost      Research Cost      Maintenance Cost      Opportunity Cost      Breakup Risk      Risk of Being Dumped      Breakup Cost 5.  Attraction      Attractiveness      Qualities to Fulfill Needs of Others      Confidence      Lowering Love Costs of Others      Situational Forces      Other Attractive Traits 6.  Weaknesses of the Model 7.  Soulmates & True Love      Soulmate Theory      Number of Soulmate Believers      The Evidence of Soulmates      Chances of Marrying Your Soulmate 8.  Methods of Finding Soulmates      On Your Own      Virtual Communities      Personal Ads      Traditional Dating Services      Online Dating Services 9.  How to Solve Dating      The Solution      How You Can Help Solve Dating 10.  Appendix      Other Attractive Traits      Love Economics Translations References About the Author The Soulmate Manifesto: Uniting all Soulmate Believers In an Effort to Solve Dating Copyright 2003. Aluran, Inc.

The Soulmate Manifesto: Uniting All Soulmate Believers in an Effort to Solve Dating Situational Forces 1.  Mood The mood of your love interest affects how attractive you are. If your love interest is in a good mood, he/she will view you more attractive. If he/she is in a bad mood, you will also be more attractive if you are in a good mood. Insights and Predictions Very moody people will fall in love faster and more frequently. Reason why people use wine, scented candles, lingerie, and romantic music. People who play romantic guitar will get laid more often then those who do not. Explains why being funny and happy is always attractive. Tactics to Influence Mood Plan dates at romantic locations. Have a romantic music collection and invest in top-of-the-line stereo systems for home and car. Wear love interest's favorite scent. 2.  Arousal People are more susceptible to love if they are in emotional or stressful situations. If you are present at these situations, you will be viewed as more attractive. When people have bad or good news, they need someone to share the news with. Being present at emotional or stressful situations allows you opportunities to fulfill esteem, social, and safety needs of others. In other words, you are able to provide the benefits of love. People also may mislabel another emotional or physical arousal for sexual arousal. There are numerous studies that show people, who were emotionally or physically aroused, to misjudge the attractiveness of others. Unattractive people will be viewed as more unattractive, while attractive people will be viewed as more attractive. Insights and Predictions Obstacles and stressful events either tear couples apart or make them closer. People are hornier if emotionally or physically aroused. Using cocaine or speed before sex will enhance sexual pleasure. Explains why guys with fast cars will get laid easier. Explains why people wear cologne and perfume. Tactics to Influence Arousal Drive fast and dangerous on a date. Bring love interest to a very violent or highly emotional movie. Start an emotionally charged fight and then apologize afterwards. Flatten a tire on love interest's car and be there to fix it. Assuming love interest is already attracted to you, spike his/her food and drink with caffeine. < Back Top Next > SPREAD THIS INFORMATION   If you want to help solve dating, please spread the word by clicking below: Be a supporter by joining our mailing list. Send friends a link to this web site so they can download it. Download, print, copy, and give it to friends and family. Download, print, copy, and post the flyer to support the campaign. Sponsored Links: Alexis Vogel Cosmetics: Professional Makeup and Makeup Tips - The Alexis Vogel System from sought after Hollywood makeup artist, Alexis Vogel. Step-by-step video instruction, professional quality cosmetics, makeup artist tools, and value pricing.