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Introduction

1.  The Manifesto's Purpose

     The Need

     The Method

     How to Use the Manifesto

     The Outcome

2.  Love Economics

     Behavioral Models

     The Core Variables

     A Relationship

     Model Assumptions

     Emotional Availability

     Past Love Experiences

     Commitment

     How to Use the Model

3.  The Benefits of Love

     Emotional Needs

     Entertainment Needs

     Materialistic Needs

4.  The Costs of Love

     Search Cost

     Your Attractiveness

     Your Social Networking Skills

     Search Time Cost

     Search Financial Cost

     Rejection Cost

     Research Cost

     Maintenance Cost

     Opportunity Cost

     Breakup Risk

     Risk of Being Dumped

     Breakup Cost

5.  Attraction

     Attractiveness

     Qualities to Fulfill Needs of Others

     Confidence

     Lowering Love Costs of Others

     Situational Forces

     Other Attractive Traits

6.  Weaknesses of the Model

7.  Soulmates & True Love

     Soulmate Theory

     Number of Soulmate Believers

     The Evidence of Soulmates

     Chances of Marrying Your Soulmate

8.  Methods of Finding Soulmates

     On Your Own

     Virtual Communities

     Personal Ads

     Traditional Dating Services

     Online Dating Services

9.  How to Solve Dating

     The Solution

     How You Can Help Solve Dating

10.  Appendix

     Other Attractive Traits

     Love Economics Translations

References

About the Author




The Soulmate Manifesto:

Uniting all Soulmate Believers

In an Effort to Solve Dating



Copyright 2003. Aluran, Inc.



The Soulmate Manifesto:

Uniting All Soulmate Believers in an Effort to Solve Dating

The Solution

Here are the guidelines to solve dating. Many powerful companies and people will want to prevent the solution from becoming a reality. Because of the solution's potential disruptive ability to damage other dating solutions and various industries, the full details of the solution are kept secret until critical membership numbers are reached.

1.  Service is Free or Extremely Cheap
Service is free so critical mass can be reached faster than online dating services. Members will not pay $25 a month or $150 a year when there is only 3 matches living near them. Cost of service has to be minimal and someone or some company has to absorb the cost initially. Membership retention is good and membership numbers have to be honest. Because of the lack of revenue, the solution will not be funded by venture capitalists or publicly traded companies.

2.  Technology Has To Be Scalable and Fast.
Scalable means that the solution has to be strong and flexible enough to support tens of millions of users. The solution can not be database driven otherwise millions of dollars will be needed to buy central servers. It has to be more than a peer-2-peer network because the search speed throughout the network would be too slow. Also, someone or some company must absorb the software development costs of the solution.

3.  Membership Acquisition Cost Is Nothing.
The solution does not require television commercials or millions of dollars in advertisement to attract members. It has to be so good that it will spread through word-of- mouth.

4.  Attraction Needs To Be Accurately Judged.
Physical appearance can be judged accurately. Profiles need to be more detailed to give those who are not physically attractive a chance to be attractive.

5.  Research Cost is Low
Because members have to meet in person, members have to be more honest. The solution gives members the ability to go on many economical and efficient dates to increase their odds of finding soulmates.

6.  Ability to Mimic Natural Social Interactions
The solution has to be very close to how people normally meet their soulmates. In other words, there can be no speed dating, rapid dating, or other deviations. Because the solution mimics natural methods of how people meet, social acceptance and membership will be larger.

7.  Must Be More Than a Dating Service
To build the largest membership base, the solution can not be exclusively used for dating. A large percentage of people may feel embarrassed to use a dating service. The solution must provide a total solution for all social networking functions. This way, everyone will have a good excuse to be part of it.


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